Singleness

Human kind or sometimes we called human being to represent each individual on this earth was created by God to complete their own existance and complete the world with their existance..which made us an individual as well as a social creatures..
As an individual..we held up an ego by becoming self-absorbed selves..and pretended not perceiving what happened to the surroundings.
As a social we tended having relationships with others, longing for someone to notice us or might have compassion to the unlucky ones..

To elucidate about human being, one philospher said we could approach the origin of being by deviding it into three world which are the material existence as physical objects and state. (body), the emotion (soul) and the spirit (human spirit). These three worlds demanded each to be satisfyingly fulfill to reach completeness.. Most of people sat around waiting for someone to come along..playing it safe, living in their tiny world, doing ordinary things aimlessly and just hoping.. No one came along and unfortunately, there are energies and time wasted on waiting.. Even though someone has come, our natural way to complete that 3 facets is by taking what belong to others. Others materials or others emotions in order to comfort our “incomplete” zone..
If you notice, that is why the search for meaning in our existance arises in each one of us at some time in our lives.

When these “incomplete” people commiting to knit a relationship.. unconsciously they’ll take each others to reach completeness.
To give more understanding.. picture there’s two glasses of water at same size which is half empty.. to full one glass we need to pour the water from the second glass and the result is one glass full.. one glass is empty..
Or second picture..one glass is full and the second one is half empty.
And to make a balance contain, each glass can not be full either.
When we..ourselves is not a full man or full woman.. we’ll taking each others while the relationship goes.
Or have u ever heard about people who can’t live without a spouse??
This is what they do..when one relationship ended.. They will be looking for another ASAP.
And the result is… They never ever be fullfil.. never feel complete and never ever satisfy… by whoever in their side at the moment.

Maybe most people saw singleness as a matter of shame and trying so hard to find a spouse by listening other opinions sometimes even by reducing their fullness.
But God has a beautiful purpose on singleness..
He wants you to complete your own existance through Him and then share yourself to the world.
You can think over your life and the passions He has placed in your heart,the activities you enjoy, the ways you like to serve people, the times you have been most fulfilled.
Explore His creativity and beauty in this world by your own certain way..
Uncovering your interests and began to seek your calling..
Live life to the fullest for the Lord and the benefit of others.
God has made beauty and each one beautiful.
Seek out beauty, create it, and share it with others.
And in the middle of all of that.. you will find someone running along with you…

♥ Stephie